Sibling Rivalry
When two of your children are fighting God what do you do?
I would have them to sit down, I'll ask them to speak,
I would ask them to reconcile so that they can both be healed.
One cannot be in denial of their wrongdoing and one be willing to reconcile, both must be readily honest, open and available for reconciliation. That is when God can minister to the both of them, and that is when God can bring change and also fill in the gap and that's when healing can finally take place.
How can one hide behind the premise of grace and yet still do wrong? If one does not acknowledge this, there cannot be forgiveness and they can't even forgive themselves.
You must identify with your wrong to see beyond.
It's hard for someone to apologize when they can't even take ownership for their wrongdoing. They are always waiting for someone else to point it out. They may atimes use their own perspective to deceive themselves.
God would normally draws His children together if both agree. The healing is a personal choice.
God does not love one over the other or one more than the other.
But just like rain falls on everyone God's love is available for everyone, but just like people use umbrellas in the rain and some choose to get wet in this same rain by ignoring weather info.
We do have a choice whether to come under the covering of God's love, forgiveness and healing or whether we choose to stay in the rain, get wet and catch a cold. You know what, in the end it's going to show who has not submitted themselves to the covering of God. Pride will destroy you.
Accountability
We are all accountable here on earth and even in heaven for our actions.
Assuming, this was even a lie. The comments by women who double as enablers is shocking. Even if misogyny wants to keep us mute, how can we not speak to ourselves. We have a voice and we must use it wisely. We must ask questions and we need to get answers.
How do we let religion allow us lose our senses. I am a practicing christian, and in need of grace by the second. My relationship with Jesus is one I cherish as Jesus is the only constant person in my life.
Please lets sit down and ask ourselves deep and thought provoking questions.
- If it were you, what would you do?
- if it were your child, what would you do?
My assumption is you probably can't give a definite answer.
Every person grieves in a unique way, don't judge, simply support or be quiet.
- If it were your spouse or loved one that was accused, what would you do?
- if it were proven true, what would you do?
I am shocked as to the level we have allowed ourselves to be treated. It is such a degrading manner and then we are accused of pride etc when we question the status quo.
Just take a deep and close look at the ones who are before us, can you not see? All our mothers have stories that can be made for the big screen.
Does the pain not run deep enough for us to ask questions. We want different.
There is nothing wrong with us for asking for a change. Yes, we met it like this, but it doesn't mean we must accept it as is.
WE WERE MADE FOR MORE.
So women, how is it that your husband goes out and returns and he can't account for some of his time?
You don't get truthful answers consistently and yet you support your man blindly. What are we teaching our young girls? You don't even know what your husband does for a living. He is a business man.
You either don't show interest, don't care as long as your children are taken care of. So far he drops money....your time is coming. I am not talking about those who get abused. I am talking about those who simply can't be bothered.
For better for worse? You are vouching for a man who most of his character is hidden from you. I suggest you choose to be non verbal and stay that way till you have proof of the opposite.
In the alleged case of rape against Biodun, how many cases before this with Busola? How many private reprimands? You have allegedly offended your Christian sister in private, the elders have tried to warn you in the past, allegedly. Now the matter is becoming bigger than you, this rod will not spare you this time in private.
There is healing for those that seek it, those that don't usually fall away to the ailment of their disease. There is non without sin. It is not a case of, if the glove doesn't fit, you must acquit.
We all have so much to think about. One thing we can't do though is turn a blind eye or straddle the fence of truth and justice.
It is a new day for the Nigerian woman. Let us build together and walk alongside each other. Whole man and whole woman. Lets's appraise ourselves.
Enough said
Truly
My name is Modupe,
I am a women's interests advocate.
I would have them to sit down, I'll ask them to speak,
I would ask them to reconcile so that they can both be healed.
One cannot be in denial of their wrongdoing and one be willing to reconcile, both must be readily honest, open and available for reconciliation. That is when God can minister to the both of them, and that is when God can bring change and also fill in the gap and that's when healing can finally take place.
How can one hide behind the premise of grace and yet still do wrong? If one does not acknowledge this, there cannot be forgiveness and they can't even forgive themselves.
You must identify with your wrong to see beyond.
It's hard for someone to apologize when they can't even take ownership for their wrongdoing. They are always waiting for someone else to point it out. They may atimes use their own perspective to deceive themselves.
God would normally draws His children together if both agree. The healing is a personal choice.
God does not love one over the other or one more than the other.
But just like rain falls on everyone God's love is available for everyone, but just like people use umbrellas in the rain and some choose to get wet in this same rain by ignoring weather info.
We do have a choice whether to come under the covering of God's love, forgiveness and healing or whether we choose to stay in the rain, get wet and catch a cold. You know what, in the end it's going to show who has not submitted themselves to the covering of God. Pride will destroy you.
Accountability
We are all accountable here on earth and even in heaven for our actions.
Assuming, this was even a lie. The comments by women who double as enablers is shocking. Even if misogyny wants to keep us mute, how can we not speak to ourselves. We have a voice and we must use it wisely. We must ask questions and we need to get answers.
How do we let religion allow us lose our senses. I am a practicing christian, and in need of grace by the second. My relationship with Jesus is one I cherish as Jesus is the only constant person in my life.
Please lets sit down and ask ourselves deep and thought provoking questions.
- If it were you, what would you do?
- if it were your child, what would you do?
My assumption is you probably can't give a definite answer.
Every person grieves in a unique way, don't judge, simply support or be quiet.
- If it were your spouse or loved one that was accused, what would you do?
- if it were proven true, what would you do?
I am shocked as to the level we have allowed ourselves to be treated. It is such a degrading manner and then we are accused of pride etc when we question the status quo.
Just take a deep and close look at the ones who are before us, can you not see? All our mothers have stories that can be made for the big screen.
Does the pain not run deep enough for us to ask questions. We want different.
There is nothing wrong with us for asking for a change. Yes, we met it like this, but it doesn't mean we must accept it as is.
WE WERE MADE FOR MORE.
So women, how is it that your husband goes out and returns and he can't account for some of his time?
You don't get truthful answers consistently and yet you support your man blindly. What are we teaching our young girls? You don't even know what your husband does for a living. He is a business man.
You either don't show interest, don't care as long as your children are taken care of. So far he drops money....your time is coming. I am not talking about those who get abused. I am talking about those who simply can't be bothered.
For better for worse? You are vouching for a man who most of his character is hidden from you. I suggest you choose to be non verbal and stay that way till you have proof of the opposite.
In the alleged case of rape against Biodun, how many cases before this with Busola? How many private reprimands? You have allegedly offended your Christian sister in private, the elders have tried to warn you in the past, allegedly. Now the matter is becoming bigger than you, this rod will not spare you this time in private.
There is healing for those that seek it, those that don't usually fall away to the ailment of their disease. There is non without sin. It is not a case of, if the glove doesn't fit, you must acquit.
We all have so much to think about. One thing we can't do though is turn a blind eye or straddle the fence of truth and justice.
It is a new day for the Nigerian woman. Let us build together and walk alongside each other. Whole man and whole woman. Lets's appraise ourselves.
Enough said
Truly
My name is Modupe,
I am a women's interests advocate.
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